The just-ended 2025 Ministers’ Wives’ Conference of The Church of Pentecost was not only historic and impactful but also left participants with profound, life-transforming insights. These nuggets are set to shape the perceptions, roles, character formation, and spiritual depth of ministers’ wives, enhancing their calling and partnership with their husbands in ministry.
The organisation of the programme was excellent, and the topics selected were timely and relevant for our contemporary context. The speakers, carefully chosen, poured themselves out for God to use as vessels of blessing. As I continue to reflect on this life-changing experience at the Pentecost Convention Centre, I share below my personal reflections from each session.
GODLINESS IS A DISCIPLINE TO PURSUE
The General Secretary, Apostle Samuel Gyau Obuobi, opened the conference with the topic “The Godly Woman Unleashed to Transform Her World.” He emphasized that our foremost priority as pastors’ wives is to be godly—for godliness is not optional.
Preaching from 2 Timothy 3:5, Apostle Obuobi called on ministers’ wives to avoid ungodly behaviours and pride. To remain godly, God must be at the centre of our thoughts, and every area of our lives must be built on Christ. Knowing and applying the Word of God daily is essential.
Reflecting on this, I realised that merely knowing about spiritual disciplines is not enough. We must actively pursue godliness. A disciplined pastor’s wife is set apart for God’s purpose and complements her husband’s ministry.
YOUR MARRIAGE IS A MIRROR AND A LOUD MESSAGE
Mrs. Sheila Nyansa Hayfron, wife of the Tarkwa Area Head, delivered a powerful message on “The Pastor’s Wife and Her Marital Life.” She described the pastor’s wife’s marriage as a living example that must reflect Christ’s love for the Church.
She stressed that ministers’ wives should focus not only on seeking happiness but also on ensuring that their marriages bring honour to God. She offered practical guidance on managing the home, training children, and praying for the family—reminding us that children should also be taught to pray for their fathers.
Upon reflection, I realised that our marriages speak louder than our words. If we fail in this area, we cannot confidently teach or lead others.
THE FIRE ON THE FAMILY ALTAR IS THE FIRE WITHIN
Apostle Emmanuel Agyei Kwafo, speaking on “Fire on the Family Altar,” stressed that only a vibrant family altar can raise godly children. Living in the mission house does not automatically mean there is spiritual fire.
He encouraged ministers’ wives to partner with their husbands to maintain an active prayer life in the home. The fire, he said, should begin in the bedroom and spread throughout the household. He also stressed the importance of personal and family retreats.
Reflecting on this, I realised that a family burning with prayer becomes immune to spiritual coldness. When the pastor’s wife is on fire, it is easier to rekindle others’ flames.
NO WORD – NO MESSAGE
Mrs. Paulina Kuma, in her session on “The Godly Woman and Her Bible,” highlighted the importance of knowing and studying the Word of God. Her practical and simple guide to Bible study was refreshing.
She reminded us that without the Word, we have no message. A pastor’s wife full of God’s Word has something meaningful to say, teach, and share. Ministry becomes burdensome without prayer and the Word.
THE PRAYER OF A GODLY WOMAN
Mrs. Vida Acheampong, speaking on “The Godly Woman and Prayer,” affirmed that prayer is not optional—it is our mandate. Her personal testimonies were inspiring and stirred a deeper desire for prayer.
Reflecting on her message, I realised that a praying pastor’s wife is a warrior. Without prayer, strength is lost, doors may close, and ministry becomes hard. Prayer fuels power and victory.
LACK OF CONVICTION BRINGS REGRET IN MARRIAGE AND MINISTRY
The Chairman, Apostle Eric Nyamekye, speaking on “The Ministerial Call,” warned that those who lack conviction in their calling often complain and regret. He defined sacrifice as the offering of one’s life and quoted Hudson Taylor:
“If a commission by an earthly king is considered an honour, how can the commission by a heavenly King be considered a sacrifice?”
Reflecting on this, I realised that deep conviction—about Christ, godliness, and marriage—is the anchor for enduring the challenges of ministry. Without it, a pastor’s wife may easily give up.
PARTNERSHIP IN MINISTRY FOR ETERNAL REWARDS
Apostle Daniel Okyere Walker, speaking on “The Pastor’s Wife – Serving for Eternal Rewards,” described the pastor’s wife as a ministerial partner and a spiritual mother to the church. He noted that ineffective pastors often lack their wives’ support and encouraged strong spiritual partnership.
From this, I learnt that we must be on the same page with our husbands in vision, passion, and commitment. A passive or absent pastor’s wife weakens her husband’s effectiveness in ministry.
VISITATION BRINGS VISITORS TO YOUR HOME
Mrs. Juanita Nuekpe emphasised that visitation opens doors—not only for church growth but also for building trust with members. When we visit our members, they are more likely to open up to us and return the gesture.
SUPPORTING YOUR HUSBAND THROUGH WOMEN AND CHILDREN’S MINISTRY
Mrs. Korkor Obuobi, wife of the General Secretary, gave a practical presentation on how pastors’ wives can support their husbands through women’s and children’s ministries. She advised that pastors’ wives should operate within the women’s ministry structure and collaborate closely with its leadership.
Reflecting on her words, I realised that bridging the gap between older and younger women is vital. Our motherly role must also extend to advocating for the children’s ministry and ensuring the success of its clubs.
PREPARING FOR TRANSFERS AND HOME MANAGEMENT
Mrs. Rose Kumi-Larbi, wife of the immediate past General Secretary, addressed “Preparing for Transfers and Home Management.” She reminded us that the Church belongs to Christ, not to any individual, and that transfers should be embraced with the right mindset.
She emphasised that we must leave the mission house in a better condition for the next family. Reflecting on her message, I appreciated how transfers promote the fair distribution of ministerial gifts across the Church.
SPIRITUALITY MUST GO WITH HEALTHY LIVING
In a well-balanced session, Mrs. Ewurabena Antwi Bosiako, Elder Nana Kofi, and Dr. Charlotte Ampong encouraged ministers’ wives to prioritise health. They advised us to serve nutritious meals and engage in regular physical activity.
Reflecting on this, I learned that spirituality should go hand-in-hand with healthy living. A sound body supports a sound mind and a productive ministry.
Though the programme has ended, its impact continues to linger. The messages still echo in our hearts as we reflect and act upon them.
Written by Mrs. Gloryia Afia Morda Akorli (Kpasenkpe District, Walewale Area)
