The Chairman of The Church of Pentecost, Apostle Eric Nyamekye, has adviced ministers’ wives to view themselves as partners on a diplomatic mission alongside their husbands, who serve in the full-time ministry.
He indicated that just as a diplomat’s spouse shares in the responsibilities and representation of their partner, so too should ministers’ wives embrace their unique calling within the church.
Drawing a parallel between full-time ministry and ambassadorial service, Apostle Nyamekye explained that a minister’s wife, though not officially appointed, is covered by her husband’s spiritual mandate. As such, she is expected to support his role, much like the Levitical priesthood of old, where the family served together in sacred duties.
Speaking on the theme, ‘The Church of Pentecost Brand of Ministerial Call: The Role of the Minister’s Wife’ during the closing session of the three-day Ministers’ Wives Conference at the Pentecost Convention Centre in Gomoa Fetteh, Apostle Nyamekye encouraged the women to see themselves as co-labourers in ministry.
‘Embrace your role as the wife of a diplomat. Let us advance the frontiers of God’s Kingdom together until Christ returns. We must not grow complacent. This is a divine assignment, and we have been privileged to be called,’ he said.
He cautioned against comparing The Church of Pentecost’s ministry model with that of other denominations, noting that the Church’s approach is unique and should be respected as such.
Using biblical examples such as Jezebel, Abigail, and Pilate’s wife (2 Kings 9:30; Matthew 27:19; 1 Samuel 25:28), Apostle Nyamekye urged the women to cultivate good character, maturity, wisdom, and tact in their interactions with the presbytery and congregation.
‘Sometimes, silence is the best response. Quietness can bring peace,’ he advised, while encouraging them to evaluate their words carefully before speaking, especially in moments of provocation, by asking: What do I have to say? When should I say it? Where should I say it? And how should I say it?
He warned against what he termed ‘Jezebelic tendencies’ – attitudes that are manipulative, immoral, or seek to usurp authority. “Don’t be a Jezebel. Strive instead to be like Abigail or Pilate’s wife. Character is the essential virtue for being a supportive partner in ministry,’ he emphasised.
Apostle Nyamekye concluded by encouraging the women to remain steadfast and committed, reminding them that the trials of today are nothing compared to the glory that awaits, saying, ‘Be a good wife. Support the ministry wholeheartedly. Let go of anything that hinders your calling and persevere in the work of the Lord.’
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